The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. God will help you both work this out. The weekends that we spend together are non stop we are always doing something or going to see friends People in general don't understand how much money it actually takes to just be a doctor. If you think you are, you might be.
If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. I am about to get into a relationship with a doctor. I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. I wanted very much to make it work with us, and was willing to compromise in areas that I normally wouldn't. Moved homes 5 times in that time.
Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. He is doing 2nd year Residency. We go for hikes with the dogs and bike rides but I feel so lonely and it breaks my heart every time I have to leave his house because I know that I won't see him for a week or more. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. I can say this. He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me. But I love him. This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. After residency, depending on what specialty they do, there will be a separate set of rules of how they have to give their time oncall, early surgery times, working holidays etc.
I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. In my experience discussing my fears with my husband has at times lead to arguing esp. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone.