Mormon girls are thirsting for strong, confident, masculine men. And the fact that he didn't respond for two days was confirmation for myself that I did the right thing. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. Stick around on this sub. Because what are Mormons about. I'm dating a 2nd year surgical resident, he has three kids from a previous marriage and I have one.
I just started dating this guy and not only is he in the army, but also a doctor. All these are reasons to have some serious discussions. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. Dress nicely, as the girl will appreciate the effort put into looking good for her, and encourage her to do the same. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place.
I just feel relieved that I'm not the only one feeling like this. Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness. There are all kinds of Mormons, and we as exmormons should know better than to stereotype our former selves. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. Be gentle with them and yourself. There's no way a TBM is dating you if she knows about your Lucifer kick. But I do want to be with him.
Ragonk If you don't get it, never mind. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. Because she already lives the covenants in most of the meaningful ways. What would your relationship look like if you were to marry. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. I always feel like I am last. I have a better and fuller relationship with God because my own practice has been supplemented by additional observance. Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes.